haha.. so long nv blog liao... how many of u decided not to visit my blog anymore? haha... nvm la... it's nothing much anyway...
anyway... i went to my company law tutor's house just now... sixth avenue! haha.. beside the pt.. anyway... some things he said triggered my thought... "there's always a trade-off between life and money!" hahah... as a future accountant... working in a big 4 audit firm is something tt is so prestigious! everyone wanted to go there.. no matter wat... even if we know tt working there means no life! no time for frens and no time to rest... a worse example given by my prof is tt his niece cannot even apply for leave when her grandfather died! excuese me! wat logic is tt? but still... knowing all the bad things abt working there... there's still the good prospect, gd pay factors...
ask yourself.. how many of u enter jc coz it better den poly? enter uni coz it's e norm? coz it gives your parents face.. it will so call give u better future? how many of u wanted to get into top jc? best course in uni? but do u all really like them?
i so call come from top pri sch.. rosyth... top sec sch.. cedar.. den it felt bad initially when i enter nyjc.. coz it's not top? den i enter acc not coz i'm gd... but by luck.. but guess it's all prestige tt i'm chasing after...
e other day i told my dad.. i enter cedar coz my uncle look down on us... i choose acc coz he wants me to.. i think he's shock.. haha... but it's the truth... coz it's all not my interest.. cedar maybe.. but till now.. i still dunno wat really trigger me to like the idea of entering into cedar...
after so long of doing things coz it's the best choice, best routh to take... and after hearing wat my prof tokes abt wat's the pt of earning so much when it will nv be enough and we will nv be able to enjoy it if we make ourselves so busy.. i start to wonder...
do u pp have frens that take a longer routh in life and still succeed? we do have frens in uni tt comes from poly right? they still make it... have relatives or fren's siblings tt take night classes? we will all converge and meet somewhere in life.. it's just a matter or time... so wat's the pt of making ourselves suffer? take it easy man! hahah..
next pt my prof brought up: we always compare w pp above us and not below... ever thought tt we r better den pp who do go uni? than y other pp's cap better den mine? y they get better result den me? y they get more chances den me? y?
the bottomline is tt as long as we r happy in life.. who cares? if u earn 1 million and u r not happy... isnt it better to earn 1000 and be a happy ger? ironic isnt it? muhahahah.. just some thought...
however.. i strongly believe tt e useless me will still go back to " i want to work in big 4" after this week.. haiz....
another thing... yihan and some guys got this into me.. and maybe u pp know me well enough to know tt i will think of this... but hey! i dun think of it everyday k... just tt i receive some nice treatment today.. and i start to wonder...
is it a male instint to protect a ger? is it tt when a ger starts to behave weak and complain.. a guy will come and protect her? but something for sure.. it's always nice to have a guy to be gentle to u... =) haha... when u complain.. u will gently says... y? dun worry la... it's ok one.. .... hahaha...
lastly... i hope u gers.. whom i guess r all single! (quote from yihan: realise tt gers tt write blogs r single! muhahaha) hope u all will find a nice guy soon... tt's gonna treat u all nice... be gentle to u all... takes care of u all... =) also.. not forgetting.... do take breaks while we paper chase k! =)
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okok, my turn to comment. Right! i'm like super slow.. that goes to show that i dun visit ur blog haa.. oops!!! gulity!! Somemore my name APPEARED 2 times!! Well done! Okay, i think you are going to slap me for this. but dun u think we are after the prestige in guys too? OOPS. from way we are always talking about going to holland village to Jog, going to hospital to be nurse to fish for sick, rich old man. mUHAAA.. okay that is EVIL! Shit i think all the guys who are reading this will like condemn me to the MAX! DUG my own grave. As for Xie Xinni you know this is not what i truly believe in right? rem "pei bu pei" (my blog entry)? =)
I guess we are all brought up this way ba. as in chasing after the paper and stuff. It's all back the the big fish, small fish theory. whether you want to be in the big fish in the small pond and be the king of the world, or the small fish in the big pond. There are pros and cons for both, suffocating. it is up to one to weigh them and decide what they want?
I guess im superifical. I think most pple are. that is y we are all after the top sch. But we all noe that somehow being the big fish in the small pond aint that bad afterall? At least we get to noe some really good and true friends that dun backstab/cheat on u like they do in top JCs?
Fan shi zhi zhu jiu hao ba?
As for "it's always nice to have a guy to be gentle to u..." haaa.. im not very sure about that!! sometimes when they get too nice, it is kind of scary! OOpS.. you are going to kill me AGAIN. you noe me right? i will run away de.. i guess that is y im still on the SHELF haa.. but come to think of it. Singles can't that bad after all... at least we will have blogs with substance and not a mushy blog of him, him, him and STILL him.. HAAa.. ~Han
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